Personally, I never had an issue until I realize that everyone does on the low low and that maybe I should. Friends talk about flat stomach, big bootys, nice hips and the boobies to match it all. I notice the extremes that people go to match society meaning of beauty and felt if I don't get on it I will be left behind (I wonder why, this isn't grade school or anything).
The other day again I was ripping me apart. "I need to start putting on make up, I am getting old and I am not as fresh as I used to be" (Oh please, I am only 25), "maybe I should buy some booty pads" (really Melissa and fake the funk when you know damn well your cake is what it is and it was never an issue. Why all of the sudden am I trying to be Nicki Minaj?), "Some extension wouldn't hurt "(you love your hair no need to get all Beyonce now) I could go on with how my mind was going back and forth
I finally came to this conclusion, beauty will always be in the eye of the beholder and I can never and will never be able to fit that for the entire human population so why am I trying, what matters is what makes me happy and makes me feel good without compromising ME, MYSELF, AND I. Therefore, I am making myself a promise to do whatever I please not because of others but because it makes me feel the way I want it to make me feel!
Your thoughts?
-Ex Fat Girl
You are you, don't go changing it! BUT make up is SUPER fun lol I am ADDICTED to it, but I don't over do it. I keep it clean and simple so it looks natural, but if Im going out I step it up...
ReplyDeleteYes, Sephora def did put me on to fun, natural looks that I like without feeling like I am not being myself.
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